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Desperate Housewife14.08.09
I am in a dire predicament lately. I am always in turbo mode and even my dear husband, Odd told me to relax from time to time. But, I just can’t relax when I have a gazillion things to do like:
- finish my book by December (which I really doubt if I can ever reach that self-imposed deadline) so I can send it to some publishers or perhaps an agent (Any tips out there?). I am trying this career path as a book author and who knows I might succeed. Den som intet våger, intet vinner as we say in Norwegian. It means, those who doesn’t dare, doesn’t win.
By the way, if you’re asking regarding the genre of my book it’s fantasy, romance and young adult fiction. I won’t divulge any more than that.
- hunting for a glamourous part-time job since my school stipend is only enough for what I need but not what I want and no, I am not going to ask for money or favours on my father. I like to spend on my own hard-earned cash thankyouverymuch (if I can help it! LOL)!
- studies. I don’t really need to expound on this one.
- the neverending household chores. Despite that Odd is always there to help me, I find it inadequate especially that I am neat freak. Seeing crumbs on the floor gets on my nerves and you can always see me cleaning something in our apartment. In summary, being a housewife is already a full-time job in itself and I don’t even have babies yet! Oh.My.God! *shrieks*
- gym and diet. The road to good health and beautiful life is hell. Enough said.
- blogging. I know that I have been neglecting my blogging duties lately but, GURLLLLLLL, I am feeling that blogging is now a big chore. I am even deliberating whether I go on hiatus again or quit blogging altogether so I can fully concentrate on my other writing project. Though upon further reflections, I can’t certainly do the latter since it’s actually important to me as well. My father was right, I am definitely born confused.
Anyway, through blogging I manage to know and befriend people that are truly wonderful. I don’t want to pass on that kind of opportunity especially that friends are life’s treasures. And yes, if you just noticed I recently changed my blog’s name since I rarely write about food nowadays. It has something to do with thinspiration = less food.
- driving. I need to get a driver’s license asap so I can finally drive and channel my inner Jayne Mansfield. Okay, I am just kidding.
I can go all day with this nonsense and induce narcolepsy, albeit not intentionally on my dear friends and readers. And, honestly at the end of the day when Odd looks at me with those smouldering emerald eyes coupled with his infectious smile, I immediately surrender telling myself what a lucky bitch I am. Then after I snapped out of it, I remember there’s always another day to be feeling desperate and the need to accomplish stuff as much as I can.
That’s all.
P.S.
Here are some pics I took with my phone from our recent trip on the countryside to visit my father. The place is lovely as always. Perfect for a de-tox!
We started hiking from here since it was a lovely day.
The lake Brakvatne in which I take a dip sometimes.
Lavenders are in full swing!
This area is perfect to read a nice book. Twilight perhaps?
The forest path just screams fairytale!
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Hi Chase. Goodluck with the glamorous part-time job-hunting . Maybe you can find something related to publishing so that you’ll have more insights in the publishing world. Hope you finish your book soon.
And yes, blogging can be a chore sometimes. Inspirations are hard to come by.
Thank you! I was checking on that if they have part time jobs in some publishing firms in the area. I am reading some stuff online now to help me get insights regarding how to send ones manuscripts to agents or publishing companies.
You are actually writing a book? Glamorous! I think the countryside will add substance to your imagination as you write your book.
Just keep on blogging (doesn’t matter how many times in a month) at least we know what you guys have been up to. And each time we write, we usually took a moment to process what had happened that day, diba? Our own schedules may be just the outline, it may change however as we go on with our life, but at least the schedule gives us focus on what goals we want to achieve. Kaya mo yan.
Yes, I am! The countryside is actually one of the settings in my book. Regarding with blogging, I definitely agree and I think I should not stress myself out and let things flow where they may,
Wow, that countryside is breathtaking!
I really must get to Norway one of these years.
But likely it’ll be Iceland first.
So, you are a pretty busy bee. I know how that is.
Take care not to overdo things!
OT: I understand why you like beach volleyball, I have the same idea, but then with the other sex
We should watch together, at least you and I won’t fight over the same player
I always wanted to visit Iceland. Hahahha I’ll take you on that offer.
Don’t you dare stop Blogging! The Goblins will get you if you do…LOL! Well….maybe not the Goblins, but all of your Blog Buddies will be very p.o’d, dear Charles—-Me, the Cheif One!
These pictures are BEAUTIFUL….What gorgeous country countryside…..Just keep showing us more of these fabulous places that you and Odd visit, like this…..So many of us have never been to Norway and it is such a treat to see the Country through the eyes of those that live there…..!
How fabulous that you are writing a book!
I will not stop blogging but instead take things in my stride so I won’t feel like it’s a chore. I am thankful that I have wonderful blogger friends like you.
Aww please don’t stop blogging! Don’t feel obligated to post a lot but just don’t disappear!
Oooh can’t to hear more about your book. Or, if possible, maybe I’ll buy a copy of it once it’s publishes
Yeah, I really hope that I can publish my book soon. *crossed fingers*
The photo of the forest path is just majestic! It actually reminds of the movie Twilight.Ü All photos are beautiful – as if they’re paintings. I would want really see them one day. I’d be sad if you stop blogging
Please don’t go.
I so agree since Bergen and its surrounding areas have the same climate or weather as the setting and location in Twilight. It’s usually cloudy here and drizzling but I just love it.
You are so fierce…when they do the Real Housewives of Scandinavia, I will challenge you to a duel of crumbs obliteration! I have to channel my inner Joan Crawford every time I see crumbs on the coffee table or breakfast bord…;)
Hahahhahah they should do that and we will present ourselves as one of the casts!
ps..don’t tell anyone I said so, but Norway is much more beautiful than Sweden!
It’s just that you’ve been waiting so long to do things, waiting to come over, waiting to get married that now you want everything at once. Take your time, Sweetie and enjoy the things you are doing right now! You have a long life ahead of you
Spend your precious summer time with Odd, that is what you have been longing for. The rest till come.
I so agree. I felt that I need to accomplish as much as I can. Now, I am trying to slow down and let the chips fall in its place.
lovely pics, chase. wish we had something as serene looking as those places over here. unfortunately, i don’t think we do. hehe. btw, i’m looking forward to that book you’re abt to have published! good luck!
Yeah, I need to finish it first before December. Luckily, I am feeling up to it so I think I can really make it on my self-imposed deadline.
Love your new blog title – and the pics from the country side too (but then again, I’m Norwegian
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Thank you Renny! Hehheheh
Oh oh – I’ve been a very bad commenter in the past months.
OK I admit it.
Work and family, kittens… etc
http://www.fotothing.com/taaboe/
You should know that we adore your way of writing and your self-irony.
This post shows a variety of minds and culture which are really fascinating.
Both in Words and Pictures.
You are a true artist and we really hope you and Odd can look forward to have a pleasant and safe future in Norway together;-))
I understand Tor. I am also busy lately and been a bad commenter as well. Hehehhehe
I totally understand your predicament about blogging. My domain has yet to be renewed and I cannot blog at the moment but sometimes I do have thoughts of quitting too but when I think about the friends that I have made over blogging – I decided to carry on because I am not ready to lose them all.
Babies … I think it would be cute to see you carrying and feeding one. Heehee.
That’s why your blog is down… I can’t wait for it to be up again so I finally visit it. It’s been a long time especially that your blog somewhat blocks my IP. I hope my internet provider will fix that faulty IP.
Yes, don’t stop blogging, please!
I am in the same feeling you are, you know! Its a question of organisation.
Love your marvelous pictures in the nature!
That’s true. Now, that things were quite organised I felt that it’s no longer a problem. Time management is always the key. Hehehhehehe
breathe in… breathe out…
relax chase. have a 1 minute pause okay?
you’re writing a book? wow! am excited
Hehehhe I am doing it now…
i would love to walk in places like this everyday…living in the urban jungle is not really good for one’s health
I agree but living in an urban jungle has it share of fun except for the pollution of course.
Writing a book takes time. Studying takes time. Looking for a glam part-time job takes time. Blogging takes time. Going to the gym takes time. You just have to divide your day up into the right combination of time slots and all will be perfect!!!! I’m very impressed that you are writing a book. Such determination!
But please don’t give up blogging. I think it’s fascinating to have a glimpse of the private lives of people all over the world…. and get comments back in return. It makes the world such a small place.
I so agree on both accounts. Blogging makes the world such a small place and I am feeling a bit lighter since I manage to divide my time efficiently.
WOW you are writing a book??? Blurb.com ?
BTW: I could be flying to NORWAY!!!!!
Yes, I am but I am sending it to big publishing companies or an agent to help me out. So when are you flying to Norway and I hope you’ll drop by in Bergen!
Wow, sounds like you are busy. Leave the crumbs and keep up on the book — I’m looking forward to it =)
Oh yeah defintely swamped with stuff to do. I think I am developing OCD since I can’t just look away from the crumbs on the floor or table. I have to sweep them away immediately.
Thanks Charles! You’re the best! p.s I miss your deliiiiicious food recipes! How’s married life goin? Way happy for ya
You’re welcome! I am still going to post recipes from time to time. Married life is fun actually and I like the feeling of security. I like the feeling to be tied with Odd. He is my sun after all.
I think every blogger goes through a time like this.
It’s hard to keep a blog up in the long run.
Upon arriving back from my short vacation, I was thinking about no longer blogging. It was easier in the beginning but now more and more food blogs are popping up everywhere and it’s tough to stand out and have something new to say. You had the potential to broaden your blog and to change the name. I haven’t.
I don’t think so. Your blog or anyone’s blog have the potential to grow. And I think blogging is not a competition since everyone has something to say. Yours is truly unique and I like the food you make that’s why I am one of your avid readers.
hey, chase! take it easy, dear.
lovely pics of a lovely place.
cheers to you.
Many things!
Firstly, I love the pictures!!!
Secondly, Girl you get super lots of comments and readers like mm-hmmm WOWWWW! you’re the awesome-est
Thirdly, I so can relate with the hectic life and actually about everythin you blogged about above except for the husband, me no haz one yet to help me out with some stuff ^_^
Fourth, Writing a book!!! WOW! You’re really one person I look up to… Keep up the good work, more power to you.. and to us… independent, busy ladies
I so much love your photo takes!
We are so much alike! Confused! And got lots of things to do… definitely, I can’t quit blogging!
-Obnoxious Queer
I am waiting for your book… I hope you will become as famous (but not dead) as Stieg Larsson
Very beautiful and peaceful place!
Sounds like things are finally back to normal or pretty close. You sound very happy actually. I’m glad. Your dad’s place looks very serene. I wish you luck in all you aspire to do.
I’m not blogging much at all because it just takes so much time and I did it for 5 years so I’m kind of out of inspiration. But I do like to check in on some old friends now and then.